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Expert Q&A
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| By Keath Castelloe Low child and adolescent psychologist | ||
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My son wants to watch me go to the bathroom. We are in the potty training process, but I feel it's more appropriate for him to watch his dad. What do you think?
Actually, little boys typically begin potty training by sitting down on the potty seat to "go." If you feel comfortable allowing him to be in the bathroom with you, it is absolutely appropriate for him to watch. This models the process of using the toilet. He may be curious about why you sit and his father stands. Take this opportunity to talk openly with him about the process and explain that as he gets a little older and taller, he will stand up just like his daddy.
It is important to be upbeat, positive and matter-of-fact during potty training. Observation is a natural and helpful part of the learning process.
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