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December 5, 2000

Last week, someone on the SAHM board asked for a description of SAHM-ing as a career. That really got me thinking, since I've been toying with the idea of returning to work lately. After posting my response (below), I decided the suit and tie set can wait a little longer for my return. I also decided my description was appropriate for all parents. So here is my post, edited only slightly.

There is no interview process, and any degrees you have earned are irrelevant. Opportunities for advancement are limited, but personal growth is limitless. Training is strictly on-the-job, and prior experience is extremely helpful (though not required). Candidates must be patient, loving, selfless and self-motivated, while possessing (or developing) phenomenal organizational skills.

This is a full time position, with long hours. You are on-call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. No investment plans or insurances are offered. This is not a salaried position, but bonuses may include hugs, kisses, or an occasional "I love You " from your children. Special privileges include watching your children grow up before your very eyes.

There are no vacation days (unless you have a sitter, and even then you worry). If you have a good support staff (spouse, family, friends), you may be allowed a sick day.

Networking is essential, as it helps you build and maintain your support system, and keeps you up-to-date on the industry.

There is an abundance of hard work, though you'll discover that it's worth all the effort and then some.

OK, now for my usual ramblings. Chris and I left Jacob with Grandma Connie on Saturday so we could finish our Christmas shopping. We almost succeeded, and might have if I didn't have to spend so $%&^ much time looking for a dress to wear to Chris's company party this weekend. I should really use my disgust and frustration as motivation to actually use the exercise video that's collecting dust on top of the VCR.

I went to the doctor today for the follow-up on my BCP's. Apparently, this new prescription seems to be working out OK (no extra weight gain or high blood pressure). She gave me another sample, so I won't have to worry about getting a refill before our trip next week. I really like her.

Speaking of our trip, I'm starting to get really excited, now that it's getting closer. I still have way too much to do to get ready, but it'll be worth it to get away for awhile. Florida, here we come!!!

Before I sign off, I need to do something I haven't done enough of. I need to take a moment to remember how lucky I am. I have a sweet, loving, devoted husband who has accepted the phenomenal responsibility of supporting us so that I can stay home with our son. I have a beautiful, loving little boy who makes me so proud to be his mommy. I also have a loving family, and good friends that I can trust implicitly. I also need to thank Carl (of the dadstoday.com diaries) for reminding me of all this.

Before I get all teary-eyed, I'm gonna go and feed my kid.

Jen & Jacob =)