After Divorce
Minimizing Toddler TraumaBy Kendeyl Johansen
Small children aren't immune to the effects of divorce, but it's possible to minimize their stress. Sometimes all it takes is a hug. Walker remembers sitting in the playroom with her daughters (Emmy, 3, and Sarah, 5) after her divorce. Walker put her arm around Sarah and said, "You make me so happy!" Her daughter looked up and said, "I do?" Walker gulped, realizing Sarah had blamed her mother's sadness on herself. Walker said, "Oooh, yes!" She hugged her daughter hard.
| 3 Tips for Meeting Someone New
Divorce hurts. It takes time to recover, especially after a long marriage, but single parents need adult companionship. Eventually, most people want to find someone new. Start your search for a new companion by deciding which qualities you'd like and which you wouldn't. Use the tips below to meet new people. - Just say "hi" – Approaching strangers may seem scary but most people respond well to a friendly "hello." Remember to smile. When someone smiles back, use open-ended questions to start a conversation. While waiting for a table at a restaurant, ask for menu recommendations. If in line for food at a party, ask people how they met the host.
- Network – Let friends know you're interested in meeting new people. They might not introduce you to someone you click with romantically, but their friends have friends.
- Try something new – Ever thought about learning to sail? You don't need a sailboat. Sign up for a group lesson. Considered hiking nearby trails? Join a hiking club.
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