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Toddler Transitions
Helping Your Child Adjust to the New Baby
By Jessica Williams
Dr. Andrea McCoy, assistant professor of clinical pediatrics at Pennsylvania State University and the Penn State Geisinger Health System, talks about the benefit of physical contact when introducing your toddler to your newborn. "It is so important that the older child isn't prohibited from touching the baby, but is shown how to gently touch in a positive way," she says. "Then the family can all cuddle up on the bed." Don't force your toddler to hold or touch your baby; but you should encourage it. If your toddler seems uninterested, follow his lead. He may just need some more time to adjust, or he may truly be uninterested (that will change!).
The Homecoming
Bringing your baby home is always a joy. But remember, unlike when you brought your first child home, you may have to contend with a little person who doesn't quite understand why mommy is lying in bed with this baby all day. Why isn't mommy up doing the laundry, making meals, and more importantly, playing with me? Your routine is disrupted, and so is your toddler's. If possible, have dad or another family member or friend that your toddler is close to pick up the slack. Everyone wants to coo over the baby, but your toddler wants life back to normal! Designate someone to help him keep his schedule. Of course, if your toddler is content with admiring the baby like everyone else, then by all means, let him! "The toddler can be included in usual routines for the baby such as bathing, changing and snuggling up during feeding," says Dr. McCoy. Comments
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