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The Satisfied Sitter

How to Keep Your Childcare Provider Happy

By Lisa Marie Metzler

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If you value your childcare provider, pay her on time! She is depending on the income from you. If you suddenly change your schedule and will not need daycare for a particular day or week, pay her anyway. Sometimes you may want to give her an extra bonus for a job above and beyond the call of a normal day. Maybe she drove your children to a doctor's appointment or ran a few errands for you. Validate how much you appreciate her by paying her a little extra at the end of the week or by giving a small gift as a token of your appreciation.

A monetary bonus on a holiday or the anniversary of her employment would be appropriate. If you are employing a full-time childcare provider or nanny you may want to offer additional benefits like a car allowance, paid vacations or health insurance. "Offering a decent benefits package allows you to kill two birds with one stone," Douglas says. "You can sweeten the compensation package that your able to offer while simultaneously letting the childcare provider know just how much you appreciate her."

Praise and Admiration
Show a genuine interest in your childcare provider. Ask how her day went or what her plans are for the weekend. "I was treated as an equal," Jacobs says. "It was nothing for them to call and ask if I wanted to join them for dinner. They showed their appreciation by complimenting me, trusting me, paying me well and remembering me on holidays and my birthday."

Celebrate the anniversary of her employmet with your family. A gift certificate to a gourmet restaurant, a day of pampering at a spa or a monetary gift can generate a lot of good will.

If it's been an unusually hard week (colicky baby, ornery kids), write her a thank you note that specifically addresses what she did "extra" for you or your child. Compliment and praise her for a job well done.

Small gestures go a long way, says Stephanie DuPre, who employs a full-time nanny. DuPre, a public relations manager for Avon in Santa Monica, Calif., often receives company freebies and passes them on to her nanny. She also lets her nanny shop the Avon brochures at cost. "Nothing beats showing respect for her as a professional and gratitude for her excellent care of my child, but at the end of the day, these token gestures reinforce my esteem for her and my commitment to keeping her happy," DuPre says.

If your sitter is happy, you're kids are likely to be happy, too. And all that happiness is bound to rub off on you!


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Re: The Satisfied Sitter by anonymous on 01/29/2009 03:21PM

I am a childcare provider ... Sadly I am often booked when not needed, paid late, worked later than scheduled, and coninutously treated like my job is less significant than the peoples children I care for ... help!!!

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