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Summer Parties

Best Birthday Bets for Your Little One

By Alexandria Powell

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Cooling Down
If the summer heat isn't your child's cup of tea, there are many indoor party options available.

Parties at gymnastics facilities are a popular option for toddlers. That's because gymnastics provide an opportunity for kids to explore and exercise, says Randy McCoy, director of curriculum for The Little Gym, a worldwide company that teaches gymnastics-based classes to kids between 4 months and 12 years of age. "Kids love the music and movement, and parents love the exercise that the kids get," says McCoy. 

But not all music and movement parties are created equal, says McCoy. When selecting a facility, look for an environment geared toward toddlers physically, emotionally and socially. Ask how parties are structured – toddlers do best when they can choose to participate in group activities or explore safely on their own, and the party's structure should make allowances for both. Ask what is required of parents in terms of participation. For kids under 3, you'll want to hear that parents are expected to participate with the children, says McCoy.

If you're hosting a lot of different age groups, children's museums are another indoor option that may work well. "They have different areas geared to different ages, and that's helpful," says Fields. "Parties at children's museums do tend to be less structured – there's a lot more running around – but with kids under 5, that's really all they want to do anyway." Additionally, children's museums will often close the facility for your party or allow you to have the party after hours.

Relax, Even Though the Heat Is On
Finally, whether your toddler's party is indoors or outdoors, large or small, don't forget the importance of keeping your cool. Parents should have very realistic expectations – or no expectations at all – regarding children's participation and behavior at the party, says McCoy. Toddlers often feel overwhelmed by all the attention and excitement, which can cause them to withdraw.

"If your child is apprehensive, clingy or just wants to be held for a while, give them what they need and don't pressure them," says McCoy. "Just have some fun, let your hair down yourself and be a role model for them. Although this won't solve all problems, it will tend to minimize any tension that the kids might have."


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