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Tantrums, Tempers and Tears
Could Your Child Have ODD?
By Tamar Weiss
It can be extremely trying for parents raising a child with ODD, but there are ways that parents can help themselves and their children. The AACAP suggests positive reinforcement and praise for your child when he or she shows flexibility and cooperation. It is a good idea to take time outs if you feel you may make a conflict worse, and support your child if he does the same. Pick your battles, set up reasonable limits for your child, maintain your own interests outside of dealing with your child and try to get as much support as possible from other adults associated with you and your child. It may also help to manage your personal stress with exercise and relaxation, and don't hesitate to use respite care if you need to.
It is hard to say what the prognosis for treatment of ODD is or will be, but many children do respond well to these positive techniques. Dr. Antell maintains that parents should never give up on their child. Do not lose hope, because, as she says, "your child is a work in progress... a person waiting to unfold."