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Blankets and Other Creature Comforts

Toddlers and Security Items

By Jacqueline Bodnar

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  • Eliminate boredom. Grab your child's attention with an activity that he or she finds fun. Rewards for good behavior also often work as a great method for change. Praise and reward your child when he or she does not engage in the behavior you're trying to eliminate. Star charts, daily rewards and gentle reminders, for example, are also very helpful.
  • Utilize tools. Many pediatricians can recommend trying a reminder, such as covering the thumb with a plastic strip or "thumb guard" (an adjustable plastic cap that is taped to the thumb). Tools work best if a child is directly involved in choosing which tool to use. However, if any tool makes a child stressed, tense or afraid, stop their use at once as it may only contribute to the problem.

    • There are no clear-cut rules as to what age a child should give up such items as a pacifier or favorite blanket. The best thing to do is follow your gut instinct and do what you think is best for your child. As with any other behavior relating to child development, dependence on security items needs to be monitored closely by parents. Too much and parents can find themselves with more than just a costly doctor bill, but with a child who struggles with social skills and social development. Too little and parents could find themselves raising an overly-anxious and emotionally-challenged individual.

    Moderation, moderation, moderation – it's a mantra worth memorizing for the parent of any toddler.

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